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Regular readers will recall my first post, where I talked about how hiccups drive me crazy. Well, dear friends and family, we have had a hiccup in our pregnancy. 

Before I continue, in violation of good storytelling principles, I’m going to skip to the climax and let you know that mom and baby are PERFECTLY FINE.

On Friday the 17th of June, Anne awoke in the middle of the night to discover that she was leaking fluid. We immediately traveled to our hospital, and after a quick test it was determined that yes, this was indeed amniotic fluid. Anne’s bag of waters had prematurely ruptured at 29 weeks.

As one of the salty old nurses was sinking her IV, she said, “You know that you’re going to be here until you deliver, right?” Not the best way to break us the news, I must say. Anne was admitted to the hospital at about 4 am for PPROM (preterm premature rupture of membranes).

They immediately put her on IV antibiotics. Baby is totally safe in the womb as long as the membrane surrounding her is intact, but with it punctured, there now exists a persistent risk of intrauterine infection. She was also put on betamethasone, a steroid used to stimulate fetal lung development. If the peanut needed to be sectioned sooner rather than later, it would be particularly important for her to breathe on her own. (There are some complications associated with mechanical breathing assistance for premature babies.)

Friday night was not fun. We were exhausted, having barely slept at all the night before. We were upset from the whole situation. The fetal heart monitor was extremely scratchy and difficult to keep in place. What’s more, throughout the night the peanut’s heart rate dropped to the 70s six times. The on-call doctor entered in the middle of the night to warn us that if her heart rate didn’t stabilize we’d need to do a C-section. Anne and I were afraid. 

Anne realized that she was feeling minor contractions. She received a marker that allowed her to indicate on the fetal heart monitor when she felt them, and it turned out that her contractions corresponded to the drops in fetal heart rate. She was administered a drug to suppress the contractions and the peanut’s heart rate stabilized. Things started to settle down a bit. We slept a bit better on Saturday night, although we did get woken at 12, 3, and 6 to get IV medications changed. 

Unfortunately, betamethasone increases blood sugar, so Anne was put on a stupid gestational diabetes diet – low sugar/carb. She was told that she would have to be on that until the betamethsone treatments finished on Sunday morning, but it turns out that they’ve kept her on it “just to be safe.” It’s kind of a dispute between the perinatalogist and our OB about what’s appropriate – the deal that was cut that Anne wouldn’t have to get stuck with the blood sugar test three times a day if she just stuck to the low sugar diet. Blarg.

You might be wondering about the amniotic fluid. Well, the breach was probably high on her uterus (not low, towards the cervix), since Anne has not lost much fluid. Apparently a normal AFI level (Amniotic Fluid Index) is at around 10 or above. When Anne was measured on that first Friday afternoon they told her that she was 6.8. They said they wouldn’t be concerned unless it was under 1. Amniotic fluid replenishes itself pretty readily, apparently. Almost a week or so ago she got a 9.5. So we’re not worried about fluid loss. 

What this means is that Anne will likely have labor induced once she reaches 34 weeks. At that point, the risk of infection outweighs the benefits of additional gestation in the womb. When does she reach 34 weeks? July 19. Apparently induction is performed in the evening such as to encourage births during business hours. If that’s the case, and Anne is induced on July 19, it’s possible that she’ll have the same birthday as Grandma Pam (July 20)! How cool would that be?

The long and short of it is that we’ll get to meet the Spicy Peanut 6 weeks early. She’ll have to spend some time in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU), but we’re at CPMC, which has the finest NICU in the Bay Area. We’re optimistic she’ll come out strong and healthy. 

One day at a time. Baby steps. Our first goal was to get to Sunday at 5 am – the 48 hour mark after the first dose of betamethasone, when the medication takes effect. Our next goal was Tuesday, the 30 week mark. We just met our 31 week goal. 

Next stop: the baby shower on Monday! All of you should have gotten an update that indicated that it was being moved to the hospital patio. If not, please do let me know and I can fill you in on the details.

Much love to all. Sorry for the lack of images. And humor.

Diarrhea.

Worth a Thousand Pictures


This photo above is in our OB’s office, next to a magazine rack that has some bars next to it, which is right next to the examination table. During every visit, I read these words and picture a montage of dozens of pregnant women grabbing the bars to get up off the table, clumsily ripping them off the wall, and falling hilariously onto the ground. (In my fantasy their babies are fine, FYI.) The most recent time I had to take an iPhone picture for posterity.

These words are worth a thousand pictures.

Future Roommate

It’s been a while since I posted. Sorry y’all. Life got in the way. That and some extra work I took on the side to bring in a few extra bucks (copyediting). Also, we’re still kind of finishing moving in. (Though we’re really just about done as of now.) 

So all of our baby furniture arrived on Friday. It looks great. We coordinated the arrival of the crib, dresser, hutch, and changing table with the rocker-glider, so the baby’s room has got its basics. The wood looks beautiful and we’ve got lots of great space to fill up with baby things. Now we just need to hang our farm chic paintings. We’re preparing our apartment for our future roommate. Of course, this little freeloader ain’t paying rent. 

Changing table, dresser, and crib.

 

This is how excited I was just after
I finished putting the stroller together.
Yes, I was in comfy pants.

Grandpa Davis (that is, Grandpa Davis to the Spicy Peanut) also got us the travel system (carseat plus stroller), so we’re feeling great! I suppose you only have a few options when it comes to the Chicco Cortina, but we chose the stylish green/brown/grey combination. It was surprisingly easy to put together, given how not handy I am. (If you can’t be handy, then at least be handsome.)

I also now have the Diaper Dude. Is it weird to say that I can’t wait to start carrying diapers around? This thing is badass.

A colleague also donated two large bags of girl baby clothes to us. Like two huge bags. She said that she had already given away the gender neutral clothes to our other colleagues (who are all having boys), so the see-through bags were, shall we say, rather pink. So we had the pleasure of washing and folding the pieces we kept and putting them into our drawers. 

Add some antennae onto Filbert and this plus baby
makes a dangerously cute combination.

One of the best finds (IMHO) – a little ladybug costume with tiny wings. Note to self: pair the peanut in this costume along with Filbert wearing antennas and red spots on his black body. It will be a swirling black hole of cuteness. No one will survive. 

We took our diapering class on Saturday. (We’re using a cloth diaper service.) It still kind of blows my mind that we can put a bag of dirty diapers outside our door and they get magically whisked away and replaced with a bag full of clean ones. Would they know the difference if I crapped on a dish towel and put it in the bag? I’m not sure, but I am sure that it’s 100% worth finding out.

80 diapers a week. That’s what you get with the service. The number kind of makes the reality sink in. Let’s see. That means a diaper for every 2.1 hours. Soon enough I will be debating with fellow parents the finer points of diaper usage, such as what level of fecal contamination necessitates a new diaper. 

I am fearing that my blog posts are getting too scatological. 

On Monday we had a doctor’s appointment that happened to be at the place we’re going to deliver, and we got into the elevator with a couple who was clearly just leaving the hospital with a newborn boy in a carseat. Anne kept it together just until we stepped outside the hospital when she burst into happy tears. We can’t wait!

Our lovely rocker-glider. Thanks Bea and Patrick!
Look how beautiful and happy Anne is!